There are so many times in life that we stop ourselves from becoming better. I recognize within myself and the individuals I coach that most times it has nothing to do with us feeling like we are not capable of having and maintaining better, it boils down to feeling undeserving.
I am here to let you know, you are not alone. However there has to come a point in time where we stop forcing ourselves to be stuck and we push past our own overthinking. You literally create the life you want moment by moment.
No matter if you are thinking positively or negatively that is what your life will provide you. Why?
Simply because the actions you put into place after that thought opens the door to the order of events that surface after.
If I can stress anything to you. Be in the moment! Think about what you want in the moment. Stop allowing yourself to think about things you do not want because you have already either experienced it or went through something similar, so why stay in that space.
The choice is yours and no matter what you were thinking either way you were right!